The Red Flag Project is now back!

For all new members, please go to www.wearebesties.com or click the “Buy Now” button below to complete your purchase.

You will have access to the full course on that site.

For all existing members, you may continue to complete your course using your existing account on here.

Frustrated with unavailable men and superficial relationships?

Overwhelmed by dating, rushing into relationships, a broken heart or avoiding dating due to fear of rejection?

  • You desire a meaningful relationship but feel hopeless and depleted.

  • You're in a relationship that feels off, and you struggle to pinpoint why.

  • Your dating history is a repeating cycle of unavailable, narcissistic, or detached men.

  • You're ready to understand why you attract these patterns and how to change them.

  • You've experienced heartbreak and are cautious about opening your heart again.

  • You crave a loving, secure, and honest relationship and are done wasting time on the wrong men.

  • You're prepared to move past heartbreak and start building a beautiful life with someone truly deserving.

This course is perfect for you if:

Empower yourself with our comprehensive online course, featuring over 30 insightful videos, detailed handouts, and reflective guides. Engage in a live Q&A with the doctors to ask questions about the course or get practical dating advice. The course goes live on 15th July 2024 and is designed to fit your schedule, allowing you to complete it as fast or as slow as you want. Specifically crafted for women, this course provides the tools and support you need to transform your love life and build fulfilling relationships.

What do you get?

What You’ll Learn:

  • How to recognise and break free from unhealthy dating patterns.

  • The characteristics of emotionally available versus unavailable men.

  • Insights into your dating schemas and how to adapt for better outcomes.

  • Strategies to spot and steer clear of red flags in dating and relationships.

  • Techniques for protecting yourself from unhealthy relationships and making empowered decisions.

  • A structured approach to dating that respects your values and time.

Three Steps to a Healthier Relationship:

  1. Understand the 'Why': Learn the underlying reasons for your attraction to emotionally unavailable men and how to alter these patterns.

  2. Identify the Red Flags: Gain the skills to spot early warning signs in conversations, on dates, or when interacting on dating apps.

  3. Strategic Dating: Follow a step-by-step plan to screen potential partners effectively and invest time in relationships that are truly rewarding.

Course Features:

  • Comprehensive tutorials across 4 modules, featuring videos and rich content.

  • Practical worksheets and checklists to apply your learnings.

  • A clear, repeatable dating strategy to help you find emotionally available, committed partners.

  • Insights from Dr. Corry and Dr. Gladstone, with real-life case studies from Jackie and Gemma.

  • An exclusive webinar to wrap up the course, offering a summary and live Q&A session.

About the Course:

Course Breakdown:

Module 1

In the first module, we lay the foundation for transforming your love life. You will learn about common relationship patterns and the pitfalls of getting involved with emotionally unavailable partners. We introduce Schema Therapy, a powerful approach to understanding and healing deep-seated relationship patterns. You’ll discover the concept of schema chemistry and how it influences your attraction to potential partners. The module concludes with an introduction to The Red Flag Project’s 4-step plan for transforming your love life.

Module 2

This module delves deeper into understanding how schemas can prevent you from listening to your intuition. You’ll learn a systematic approach to identifying and understanding red flags in relationships. Our goal is to equip you with the tools to spot red flags early and make informed decisions about whether to continue or exit a relationship. This module is essential for anyone looking to save time and emotional energy by avoiding unfulfilling relationships.

In Module 3, we provide you with a comprehensive dating plan designed to keep your guardrails up. This plan helps ensure that your healthy adult mode, rather than your schemas, guides your dating decisions. We cover the six stages of dating, from creating your online profile to navigating the first few dates and early relationship stages. You’ll also learn strategies to avoid dating burnout and maintain a healthy, balanced approach to dating.

Module 3

Module 4

Module 4 focuses on navigating the complexities of established relationships. Whether you’re dealing with relationship avoidance, contemplating a breakup, or deciding whether to stay or go, this module provides actionable plans and insights. We introduce a 5-step plan to help you assess your relationship and make informed decisions. You’ll also learn what a healthy relationship looks like and how to gauge your partner’s willingness to change.

In this special feature, Dr. Gladstone, Dr. Corry, Jackie O Henderson, and Gemma O’Neill come together for an in-depth roundtable discussion. This dynamic session provides an opportunity to dive deeper into the topics covered in The Red Flag Project. Our experts and course creators share their professional insights, personal experiences, and practical advice on navigating the complexities of romantic relationships. Through candid conversations, they explore the fundamentals of Schema Therapy, identifying red flags, creating a healthy dating plan, and managing long-term relationships. This roundtable offers a unique blend of expertise and personal stories, making it an invaluable resource for anyone looking to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Sit down with Jackie, Gemma, Dr Corry & Dr Gladstone

Meet your Instructors

BSocSc(Hons), MSocSc, MPsychol(Clin), PhD

I have previously worked in mental health for 25 years as a researcher, academic, and clinical psychologist. I co-founded The Good Mood Clinic with Dr Gemma Gladstone, which focused on delivering Schema Therapy to individuals with mental health conditions and trauma. The Red Flag Project emerged from our work with women over the last 20 years. Gemma and I saw how Schema Therapy helped women change their unhelpful relationship patterns for good.  I truly believe that knowing and understanding your schemas is a superpower that every woman needs! Since then, I’ve pivoted again and now work as a schema therapist and dating/relationship coach with a big focus on helping MORE women know their schemas and transform their love lives.  If a woman has this knowledge, she can make different decisions for herself and dramatically change her relationship and life trajectory for the better - and that is what this fabulous collaboration with Besties is all about . Outside of work, I enjoy planning holidays, spending time with my three children, and discovering great breakfast spots.

Dr Justine Corry

BA(Hons), GradDip(Psychotherapy), Cert(ClinHypnosis), PhD

My professional career spans 25 years, having worked in clinical research, academia and teaching roles. I also worked as a clinical psychologist in private practice for many years specialized in using Schema Therapy, not only to treat mental health issues, but also to enhance relationships and maximize well-being. Throughout my career I’ve had the privilege of working with hundreds of people seeking help for all manner of personal and relationship issues. More recently I have pivoted towards delivering schema therapy-based online programs and services, including educational podcasting.  I am deeply passionate about the early prevention of intimate partner abuse and believe that everyone has the right to feel safe and secure in relationships. As a Therapist and Relationship Coach I love sharing my passion for Schema Therapy and especially focusing on helping women thrive and make informed and healthy decisions when dating. I’m delighted to be part of this wonderful collaboration and hope that The Red Flag Project will be a valuable and lasting resource for many women.

Dr Gemma Gladstone

Empower Yourself

You Are Not To Blame

It's time to silence that critical voice in your head that doubts your worth. This course will equip you with the skills to recognise red flags early, empowering you to make healthier choices in your dating and relationship endeavours.

FAQ’s

  • Enrollment into The Red Flag Project will be open from the 14th of June until the 14th of July 2024.

  • The course includes four comprehensive modules covering relationship patterns, spotting red flags, developing a dating plan, navigating established relationships, and practical case studies. You’ll also have access to handouts, reflection questions, and checklists to support your learning.

  • If you miss the enrollment period, you will have to wait until the next enrollment window. We recommend signing up during the open period to secure your spot.

  • Once enrolled, you will have lifetime access to the course materials, allowing you to learn at your own pace and revisit the content whenever you need.

  • Schema Therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on identifying and changing deeply ingrained patterns of thinking and behavior. In The Red Flag Project, you’ll learn how your schemas influence your relationship choices and how to heal them for healthier relationships.

  • Red flags are warning signs indicating potential problems in a relationship. Recognising red flags early can help you avoid unhealthy relationships and save time and emotional energy.

  • The 4-step plan involves understanding your schemas, identifying red flags, developing a dating plan, and making informed decisions about staying in or leaving a relationship. This structured approach aims to help you build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

  • The dating plan is designed to help you navigate the early stages of dating with clear boundaries and awareness. It includes steps to prevent your schemas from driving decisions, keep dating in perspective, and avoid intense emotions from overshadowing your judgment.

  • Yes, one of the modules specifically addresses navigating established relationships. It includes action plans for common scenarios like coping with relationship avoidance, dealing with breakups, and deciding whether to stay in or leave a relationship. Plus you’ll learn lots about your schema’s

  • The course includes handouts, reflection questions, checklists, and case studies to support your learning. These resources are designed to help you apply the concepts and strategies discussed in the course to your own relationships.

  • The course is designed to be flexible and self-paced. While the time commitment can vary, we recommend setting aside a few hours each week to go through the modules, complete the exercises, and reflect on the material.